Melody Green. AAA Pro Life. Why You Shouldn't Marry or Date an Unbeliever By Melody Green At first glance, it may seem that an article such as this is unnecessary - that anyone who loves God could not possibly consider spending their whole life married to someone who doesn't! This, unfortunately, is not the case. I receive letters daily from women who are desperately trying to serve God in a full and complete way, but are unable to do so because their husband loves and serves the world. I am addressing this article to Christian women in particular, because in my counseling experience, they seem to make this mistake much more, frequently than men do.
What Does the Bible Say About Dating An Unbeliever?
Often but not always , those who are pondering this question readily acknowledge that the Bible says a Christian cannot marry a non-Christian. Nevertheless, they believe they can move down this path because 1 the Bible does not forbid dating an unbeliever; 2 their romantic relationship can serve as a means of evangelism to the unbelieving boyfriend or girlfriend; 3 their situation is unique; or 4 a combination exists of some or all of the above. In answering the question whether a Christian can date a non-Christian, it is important to first note that the Bible, strictly speaking, does not forbid Christians from dating non-Christians. That last statement might cause a few biblically-minded Christians to stumble.