If your sister begins dating a member of the same family you are, do everything in your power to end it, and avoid the struggles. No contact. Party is OVER. How are they supposed to remain loyal, and supportive to you while still going on vacations and dinners with the family? It makes everything a competition.
Suppose you are preparing to marry your soul mate, only to belatedly realize that this person is not truly yours alone? Beyond telling them apart, there is a unique set of issues that go with marrying someone who is the product of a multiple birth. It demands a special sensitivity to family dynamics and, in most cases, a tolerance for the special closeness among the siblings. People marrying into this situation must recognize that they may never have their partner fully to themselves. Forget about it.
Two sisters who married brothers say they are looking forward to their kids becoming double cousins. Hannah was 13 when she first started dating Brian in , and Hope and Ben got together while chaperoning their younger siblings on dates. When Hope, a web designer, and Ben, a freight manager, threw a first birthday party for their daughter Kira, in December , Hannah and Brian rekindled their love. Hannah and Brian, both 25, wed in December and the couple are expecting a little girl in November. We were in relationships with other people.