Most men have a very hard time figuring out what to write about themselves on a dating site, much less doing it in a way that women find irresistible. The majority never get it right. On the other hand, when you write a compelling profile, you can watch messages from high-quality women pile up in your inbox, and fill your dating calendar like clockwork. How do we know the profiles really attract beautiful women? We handle the messages and set up the dates too! Want dates with amazing women too?
How To Create An Irresistible Online Dating Profile
How To Create An Irresistible Online Dating Profile | HuffPost
I spend lots of time in this column and over at A n nals of Online Dating documenting the worst of the worst internet daters. And there are so many bad ones! But there are also some really good ones — and some mediocre ones that could be so much better if not for rookie mistakes. First up: How to create a good profile. Clever is better than boring, but boring is better than gross. If you like low-key creative types, share what it is you make. Do you get off on witty banter?
If you are looking for love online, a great profile is key. Of course you need compelling photos, but those who are looking for a real relationship will look beyond a pretty face to find out what you are about. It would be nice if everyone could give you the benefit of the doubt and magically see what a fascinating, unique, loving person you are, but that's not how online dating works. A generic profile that doesn't say much or says the wrong things will be overlooked by the very people you truly hope to connect with. There are lots of quality singles online.
This chart shows of the top most commonly used words in profiles on OkCupid. The color-coding shows the average attractiveness rating of the people using those words. Click here to enlarge. One of the clearest findings: Higher-brow preferences make you sexier.